
Ithamar
Avnon, the sole Israeli national aboard the downed Malaysia Airlines
Flight 17, pictured in Jerusalem in 2008. (Shai Penn Eisenman)
AMSTERDAM (JTA) — A few hours before he departed Amsterdam for
Australia on July 17, Ithamar Avnon was praying for peace with his
parents at their home in the Netherlands.
That evening, pro-Russian separatists shot down Avnon’s flight,
Malaysia Airlines Flight 17, over eastern Ukraine, killing all 298
passengers and crew. Avnon, 26, was the sole Israeli national on board.
The son of a Dutchwoman and an Israeli who became
a Christian evangelist, Avnon loved peace because of how well he and his family knew war.
His father, Dov, served for three years in the Israel Defense Forces
before moving to the Netherlands in the 1970s. His older brother,
Jonathan, was an Israeli paratrooper. Following his brother’s lead,
Avnon voluntarily joined the paratroopers and fought with that unit in
the 2009 Cast Lead operation in Gaza.
Friends and family say that Avnon, who was born in the Netherlands in
1988, was a fun-loving man with a penchant for buffoonery who was
looking forward to completing his international business degree at
Swinburne University in Melbourne, Australia.
“Ithamar liked horsing around, he wasn’t a stern guy,” his mother,
Jeannet, told JTA. “I never thought Ithamar would join the army, but he
was inspired to do it by his brother. Ithamar completed the training and
got that red beret.”
One of his former commanders, Shlomi Biton, said Avnon — Ito, to his
friends — was a forgetful soldier who would often lose pieces of gear,
including that red beret, just moments after receiving it. Avnon got
away with it because of how well-liked he was by his peers and
commanders.
“I really loved Ithamar,” Biton wrote on a Facebook page in Avnon’s
memory. “I wanted to be the one to give Ithamar the beret — and then
another one after he lost the first one, which was typical.”
Dov Avnon moved to Holland after meeting Dutch Christians in Eilat in
the 1970s. Even as an ex-Jewish Christian living in Holland, Dov Avnon
and his wife raised their children with a love of the Jewish state.
After Avnon’s death, Dov wrote on Facebook: “I am happy that he grew
up with the bible and the faith that Christ died for him on the cross.”
Avnon had been in the Netherlands to attend the wedding of his sister, Ruth, who learned of the flight’s demise on the radio.
“I knew immediately that it was my little brother’s flight and it
felt as though I was sinking and the world around me was falling apart,”
Ruth Avnon said.
In their home near Utrecht, Avnon’s parents were waiting last week
for a Dutch forensics team to finish identifying the remains of the dead
in the hope of recovering their son’s body.
Though the final remains found at the crash site arrived in Holland
last week, the search is ongoing. Full identification of the victims
could take months and it’s not yet clear whether all the bodies have
been recovered. Dov has little hope of recovering his son’s remains,
since he was sitting close to the engine.
“It’s a strange sort of mourning because we have no body,” Jeannet
said. “I’m afraid that when and if a body is recovered, we would need to
mourn all over again.”
Avnon had a knack for comedy and impersonations and had a face he
would make by puckering his lips. “We called it the Berrie face,”
Jeannet said.
His thespian skills also helped him at work, according to Nata
Sapuga, Avnon’s former boss at a recycling company. During a business
trip to India, Avnon got an upset stomach and had to run to the bathroom
every few minutes while working at a business fair.
“He would tell visitors to his booth, ‘Excuse me, sir, but I just
figured out that I need to exchange a few urgent words with my biggest
buyer, who just passed by,’” Spuga recalled.
Holland lost 194 of its citizens on board MH17, prompting the
government to declare a day of mourning — the first in a century. The
national outpouring of grief has provided some consolation to Avnon’s
parents.
“We are consoled by the feeling of a community, by the respect the
Netherlands is showing to all victims,” Jeannet said. “It dulls the
pain, as did the powerful speech of our foreign minister, Frans
Timmermans, at the United Nations.”
In that speech, Timmermans condemned pro-Russian separatists for
delaying access to the bodies and urged delegates to imagine they were
parents of the victims “and then two or three days later see some thug
steal their wedding ring from their remains.”
Western leaders also criticized Russian President Vladimir Putin,
accusing him of supplying the separatists with the weapons used to bring
down the plane and for failing to expedite the return of the bodies.
Dov Avnon wrote Putin a scathing letter, accusing him of harboring
“people who have lost all humanity.”
On Wednesday, Dov was at the ceremony in Eindhoven Airport, where the
first bodies were returned. Organizers had placed a flag for every
nation that lost civilians in the crash, including Israel.
“I know that flag is especially for Ithamar,” Dov Avnon said. “I am
proud to be an Israeli and a Dutch citizen and grateful for this
treatment.”